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How to Tell Your Partner You need to Watch Adult Movies During Sex
If you just started a new relationship or happen to be married for 20 years, when it comes to talking with your lover about the desire to watch adult movies during intercourse, is never easy. However, in reality you'll never understand how they'll answer if you don't ask. Rather than hiding it like it is a dirty little secret, the open communication can enhance your love life and improve other facets of your relationship.
It's normal to become concerned about your lover's reaction, use a third-party indirect question for example: "Bill told me over coffee that Linda and him watch channel X intimately. Have you ever imagined watching adult movies during sex? Apparently they like it."
The preframe with this conversation is the fact that watching adult movies is a healthy medium. Bill and Linda improved their love life through stimulating images and auditory enhancers of groans and dirty talk. By asking her if she likes it even before you suggest you're into it, will loosen up the pressure you and provide you with a solution without facing judgement.
In case your lover says, "sure let's check some out," bear in mind while the movie is rolling to stare at her often. Let her know she is sexier than all of the women. Repeat some of the dirty lines aloud as if she were among porn stars. Guide your lover in to the positions. Always stay in the moment rather than becoming fixated on screen. Afterwards, ask her what else she would like to test. Watching adult movies with your lover is a superb gateway to more kinky arts.